If it's not official you should not say that it is or because it means that you twist the rules.
Lovers are part of life choices as in? Now I wonder what you mean by "lovers" apparently not your life or children?

For you, maybe hanging out with friends and the computer is more relaxing.

Since this is 2025 and we live in the SF time and there are equal rights and women work and have salary next to being housewives, wives, dishwashers, cleaning ladies, therapists and so on I assume that equal also means that they can have 5 husbands? Sounds fair to me. Than at least they have a chance to be pampered as well. Do you know that there are also cultures in the past where the women are in charge and can have more than one men and not the other way round? History is very interesting.

@kafio is that possible?