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RE: Is There Only One Day for Love? The Truth About Valentine's Day
It's not officially prohibited, it's more like advice from religious leaders, it's a matter of faith, some people don't care, some people get carried away. It comes down to each person, but when it comes to my religion, this is not recommended.
Why shouldn't I ask? Lovers are part of life choices, let's just say I'm doing some kind of lifestyle survey. For you, maybe hanging out with friends and the computer is more relaxing.
If it's not official you should not say that it is or because it means that you twist the rules.
Lovers are part of life choices as in? Now I wonder what you mean by "lovers" apparently not your life or children?
Since this is 2025 and we live in the SF time and there are equal rights and women work and have salary next to being housewives, wives, dishwashers, cleaning ladies, therapists and so on I assume that equal also means that they can have 5 husbands? Sounds fair to me. Than at least they have a chance to be pampered as well. Do you know that there are also cultures in the past where the women are in charge and can have more than one men and not the other way round? History is very interesting.
@kafio is that possible?
Polygamy Is a responsibility, not fun
Having four wives in Islam is not about fun or desire; it is a serious responsibility that requires fairness, financial ability, and emotional stability, many people misunderstand this and think it’s just about having multiple wives, but in reality, it is a difficult obligation that most men cannot fulfill properly, that’s why the Qur’an clearly warns:
"If you fear that you will not be just, then [marry] only one." (Surah An-Nisa 4:3).
Also, men and women are not the same, but that does not mean one is better than the other. They have different roles and responsibilities, and this is true in all religions, islam teaches that men and women complement each other, and both have rights and duties in life.
a truly smart person understands that polygamy is not about power or pleasure—it is about justice, responsibility, and solving social issues, Those who take it lightly do not understand its true meaning
==> religious scholars are the best people to explain this in depth. Islam also teaches that if someone doesn’t have enough knowledge about a topic, they should seek wisdom from those who do.
Because there are many people who give answers and may not know whether they are correct or not, the best thing to do when something is related to religion is to research it alone on Google or ask the right person.