Polygamy Is a responsibility, not fun
Having four wives in Islam is not about fun or desire; it is a serious responsibility that requires fairness, financial ability, and emotional stability, many people misunderstand this and think it’s just about having multiple wives, but in reality, it is a difficult obligation that most men cannot fulfill properly, that’s why the Qur’an clearly warns:

"If you fear that you will not be just, then [marry] only one." (Surah An-Nisa 4:3).

Also, men and women are not the same, but that does not mean one is better than the other. They have different roles and responsibilities, and this is true in all religions, islam teaches that men and women complement each other, and both have rights and duties in life.

a truly smart person understands that polygamy is not about power or pleasure—it is about justice, responsibility, and solving social issues, Those who take it lightly do not understand its true meaning

==> religious scholars are the best people to explain this in depth. Islam also teaches that if someone doesn’t have enough knowledge about a topic, they should seek wisdom from those who do.
Because there are many people who give answers and may not know whether they are correct or not, the best thing to do when something is related to religion is to research it alone on Google or ask the right person.