Knowing the difference between non acceptance and resistance

It seems that with life there is a balance with pretty much everything. Finding the middle ground can be difficult if your oblivious to the nature of whatever it is thats been surfacing. I find that sometimes even stuff you think you’ve gotten over can come back if your going through a dip. It will gradually start to find a way the more your defences come down and its so easy to forget then what you’ve spent so long getting over.

There will always be room for more growth, more expansion, more happiness unfortunately finding your way through can at times seem like a maze that no matter how hard you try you just can’t find your way. Its moments like these where its difficult to take a step back because your so engaged it’s impossible to even be in a state to analyse.

Not accepting the situation you find yourself in is fine however there becomes a point where the pendulum swings into resisting where you are specially if your going through a few weeks / months of lows. Sometimes finding hope can be difficult even though if you’ve been committed to growing for long enough will know that its just a cycle between the hopelessness and the bliss. After all it’s what makes us grow. For me i find being able to identify what is going on and why is essential for finding peace and the clarity that comes with it. Its so easy to fall into despair it seems that sometimes you have to go right down before you can summon the remnants of whatever energy you have to work out why you are resisting where you are instead of allowing it to be which is the only way through. It doesn’t mean you have to accept it.. the balance between the two can be fine, it’s one that I believe is quite important too. If we’re going to find our way through our challenges then this one most definitely needs to be nurtured in a way that allows your energy to be high. So that everything you do reflects that, change is then inevitable.

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