What do they feel? - connection.
What do they allow? - connection.
What is reality? - well it is not separation lol…
So did the one who suicided react to reality or the illusion of separation?
Was that illusion built by the filter of their belief - did these conditions govern their actions, that re-affirmed the assumptions from their stories?
We will resonate, we will give of emotion and receive emotion relative to the memories we embody.

you've got very good insight.

the one who suicided didn't fit into (our) society. thus reacted to its current reality.

when you cage a certain specie such as a bird that all its life has been free into the wilderness, or any other animal for that matter, it doesn't live for long.

although, when you train it from its birth to live into a certain environment, it adapts. but still remaining with a void on the inside as if something's missing (depression). society's construct has no life. pure decay and negative surroundings. nothing is natural, nothing seems to be right.

We share our fears, so it is actually kind of a virus.
enough people get infected and pretty soon they want to control everyone else.

this is very true.