Concessions are a sign of strength, not weakness

The concession in which I cancel myself is when they stand over me with a stick, and after several blows I have nothing to do but give up my desire and do what the owner of the stick requires. But I make the concession mentioned in integral education of my own free will. I myself want to concede, I understand that I am gaining at the expense of such a concession.

I understand that I have no other opportunity to grow, expand, expand my boundaries, if I do not cancel myself. The concession is that I cancel my border and allow other people's properties, desires, and goals to enter me! And I accept them as if they are my own too. Otherwise, I will not grow up and will not be able to contact anyone - I will forever remain inside my pompous "I", which, in fact, is a round zero, locked from all sides.

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Absorption, absorption, mutual inclusion is a necessary condition for development, a form of life. Everyone has seen films that show how two sex cells meet and merge into one, and then begin to multiply and grow into a new body. This is possible only due to the fact that each yields, opens up to the other in order to unite together. Without this there will be no life, this is its whole secret.

It is necessary to explain this, to attach importance to it from the side of society. On the other hand, the world crisis is pushing us to this, requiring us to start connecting our dead isolated cells with each other and building a living body out of them. I open my boundaries and try to use my desire, my habits, all my abilities to fulfill the desire of another person.

My concession is that I neglect myself in order to fulfill the desire of my neighbor. Due to this, I acquire his sensation, his mind, his thought. It all starts with a conversation. Everyone should imagine the "inner map" of the partner: what does each of us want from the other, what does he require and would like to see in a partner? We begin to practice such discussions.

But we do this not as an ordinary family, striving just to improve relations, but in order to acquire, to build in oneself new organs of perception capable of sensing one's neighbor. In this way, I get out of my egoism and begin to see what is happening around me. If a person can correct himself in this way in the family unit, he will then also achieve success at work, in relationships with other people, and generally come to balance with all of nature. In this way, we tune ourselves to the perception of external reality.

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I no longer live only within myself, but begin to absorb information from the environment outside of me. And outside me there are enormous forces that I do not know and do not feel now. in relationships with other people, and generally come to balance with all of nature. In this way, we tune ourselves to the perception of external reality. I no longer live only within myself, but begin to absorb information from the environment outside of me.

And outside me there are enormous forces that I do not know and do not feel now. in relationships with other people, and generally come to balance with all of nature. In this way, we tune ourselves to the perception of external reality. I no longer live only within myself, but begin to absorb information from the environment outside of me. And outside me there are enormous forces that I do not know and do not feel now.

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