RE: A marriage license is a contract? With whom?
Sadly enough, the flip side of this is how they have encouraged women to divorce for the pettiest of disagreements. Feminism sadly now seems to mean that every problem is always someone elses fault. And given how the courts give gifts and prizes out of the mans pocket in divorce, along with the children and even alimony in some cases, it has resulted in:
Lots of kids being raised in single mother households. This in turn has helped swell the prison population as so many come from these homes with no strong male figure to look to for guidance. This push has also happened in education, where the amount of male teachers has dwindles due to social justice ideas that men are all bad people, especially white men.
Mgtow, a vastly misunderstood movement who actually are very intelligent in their conclusions. Many have either been taken to the cleaners one or more times in divorce court, watched from afar as their kids are ruined by a narcissistic mother marching men in and out of their lives, or have watched their brothers and fathers ruined in these courts. These men are often not only opting out of marriage and in many cases any form of cohabitation, they also don't like that their taxes go to fund these bad choices so many women are making now in this new environment as they are encouraged by government and media to live. So many will often now work the bare minimum they need to survive so as to hasten the demise of the government as they view it as the cause of this split between men and women, by their funding any and all bad decisions from the mans pockets.
Good women are now likely finding it harder to find a man who isn't viewing them as a sex object to be used and discarded. The saying i see in the manosphere is that even if they aren't all like that, if you knew a jar full of candy was half filled with poisonous ones, would you eat one out of it if you couldn't tell the difference?
Sadly enough, this is an issue I think is only going to get worse. It will require a strong pushback (as Jordan Peterson mentioned some time ago) by other women against this notion men are to be indentured slaves who are toxic if they have an opinion on anything. There was a time when morals exerted influence on how men and women interacted with one another, and now between the media and their constant celebration of cheap sex and the most whorish behavior with no consequence, to the courts ready to strip a man and sometimes jail him for not having enough coin to shake from his pockets to give to her, it seems like this train isn't coming back.
Having said that, for now marriage is dead for any sensible man. While I love women to much to go to the extremes Mgtow goes to ( I cohabitate with a most wonderful woman I love very much), I am to old now to sign up for giving all my stuff away and starting over a third time. I was dumb enough to get the government involved a second time and unless crypto moons, I will be paying for it till my deathbed.
This is true. However, don't think that this is unseen by generations raised in single parent homes. I think that has something to say in an these anarchy ideals, younger generations hold. They see the problems and the society pushing the ideals that destroy life.
mgtow, not very familiar with it. Sounds a little extreme almost phobic.
agreed. But good women are out there.
Door is always open.