A marriage license is a contract? With whom?
Authors note: wanted quickly to present a crucial fact, that men and women can do to safeguard their future families.
Marriage is apart of life
As we grow older we look for a partner to share everything with. We aim to cement that relationship, into a life-long journey.
What many people do not know is what is needed to be married? We all have traditions, which makes it unique. But what is the one thing it takes for both parties to wed? Consent.
The idea that two parties consent to each other is as old as Adam and Eve. This is when marriage truly happens*, this is all thats really needed in Creators eyes to be wed.
- read creation dialogue in "Bereishit" or "Genesis"
How marriage is perceived today
putting God back into marriage.
Today, 90% of every couple have either a courthouse wedding or a wedding with a licensed character of faith. Both parties, enter and witness a contract on behalf of the state.
Now why this is important, as you will find out as it establishes on behalf of the state- legal guardianship over your children. Youre children no longer belong to you, its a privilege that is extended until the state feels otherwise.
In the 1930's United States established two doctorines regarding marriage:
- Parens patriae :
the government, or any other authority, regarded as the legal protector of citizens unable to protect themselves.
the principle that political authority carries with it the responsibility for protection of citizens.
- In Loco Parentis:
The legal doctrine under which an individual assumes parental rights, duties, and obligations without going through the formalities of legal Adoption.
To put it bluntly, by applying for a marriage license the parties are allowing the state government in their lives. This allows obviously the state to kidnap you're children (based upon their own oaths), this allows the state to punish you if either party breaches the contract (based upon their own oath).
There are people and groups that see this is true. Familyprotection is one such group. (In essence this is familyprotection). And @practicalthought , he writes about VOD; a group that is comprised of volunteers; that pursues child sex trafficking and organ harvesting.
Common law marriage not only puts God back into the equation; rather it precludes the state from entering into your lives and making commercial gain of it. All it takes is consent from both parties; ceremony can be exchange of Bibles with a sweet memorial in it to your spouse. Thats all it takes.
There are some on here, that feel as if I'm telling you to not own up to responsibility..to lie to yourself. I'm saying live in Gods creation the way He intended it. Let the government do whatever they wish (in regards to marriage). Then you'll experience a blessed marriage and the miracle of life.
Just my 2 cents worth..
Sadly enough, the flip side of this is how they have encouraged women to divorce for the pettiest of disagreements. Feminism sadly now seems to mean that every problem is always someone elses fault. And given how the courts give gifts and prizes out of the mans pocket in divorce, along with the children and even alimony in some cases, it has resulted in:
Lots of kids being raised in single mother households. This in turn has helped swell the prison population as so many come from these homes with no strong male figure to look to for guidance. This push has also happened in education, where the amount of male teachers has dwindles due to social justice ideas that men are all bad people, especially white men.
Mgtow, a vastly misunderstood movement who actually are very intelligent in their conclusions. Many have either been taken to the cleaners one or more times in divorce court, watched from afar as their kids are ruined by a narcissistic mother marching men in and out of their lives, or have watched their brothers and fathers ruined in these courts. These men are often not only opting out of marriage and in many cases any form of cohabitation, they also don't like that their taxes go to fund these bad choices so many women are making now in this new environment as they are encouraged by government and media to live. So many will often now work the bare minimum they need to survive so as to hasten the demise of the government as they view it as the cause of this split between men and women, by their funding any and all bad decisions from the mans pockets.
Good women are now likely finding it harder to find a man who isn't viewing them as a sex object to be used and discarded. The saying i see in the manosphere is that even if they aren't all like that, if you knew a jar full of candy was half filled with poisonous ones, would you eat one out of it if you couldn't tell the difference?
Sadly enough, this is an issue I think is only going to get worse. It will require a strong pushback (as Jordan Peterson mentioned some time ago) by other women against this notion men are to be indentured slaves who are toxic if they have an opinion on anything. There was a time when morals exerted influence on how men and women interacted with one another, and now between the media and their constant celebration of cheap sex and the most whorish behavior with no consequence, to the courts ready to strip a man and sometimes jail him for not having enough coin to shake from his pockets to give to her, it seems like this train isn't coming back.
Having said that, for now marriage is dead for any sensible man. While I love women to much to go to the extremes Mgtow goes to ( I cohabitate with a most wonderful woman I love very much), I am to old now to sign up for giving all my stuff away and starting over a third time. I was dumb enough to get the government involved a second time and unless crypto moons, I will be paying for it till my deathbed.
This is true. However, don't think that this is unseen by generations raised in single parent homes. I think that has something to say in an these anarchy ideals, younger generations hold. They see the problems and the society pushing the ideals that destroy life.
mgtow, not very familiar with it. Sounds a little extreme almost phobic.
agreed. But good women are out there.
Door is always open.
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I've had many partners over my long life, but now I live alone