How to let your life be open to expand by sharing

Are you capable of doing things on your own? Don't hold your breath for anything. You are never the main focus of anyone's attention. First, there's life, and then there's life because! And you lose yourself when you put even tiny things on someone. You leave a trail that leads nowhere, a tap... Some energy is slowly leaking out of that "waiting" spot.

It makes no difference what it is, how simple or complex it is; what matters is that you share one end of your desire with others. There is self-assurance, a reluctance to ask for help, a fear of failure, escapism from loneliness, and a son...

Let's set it wherever we want; we'll always wind up in the same spot.
We place ourselves in a state of anticipation when we delay taking on responsibilities. We want someone to "assist us, hold one end" because we refuse to recognise that bearing that duty is too much for us right now. After adjectives like kindness, love, caring, and sharing, we do this. However, we have a clear problem: we do not wish to carry it!

We're terrified of failing, and we want to know we're not alone. We also want to be loved.
We are basically diverting our anger at ourselves to someone else when we anticipate, when we wait for others. When the person or people we expect fail to satisfy our expectations - which are difficult to define since we don't know what we expect - we become enraged. We expect them to be accountable. Because of our insensitivity, tardiness, and lack of worth. We, on the other hand, are the ones who are causing all of this. As insensitive to ourselves, not appreciating what we're doing, and leaving it late by delaying...

This is a way of venting our rage at people who refuse to accept accountability within us.
It's a way of avoiding facing oneself and recognising the truth. Even if it's a genuine "beautiful" thing.
Please do everything yourself if you truly want to wonder and discover your own power, if you truly want to progress and master all of your abilities and states, if you truly want to find your own voice.

That does not imply that you should "never seek for aid"! Another is to seek assistance. Aid is similar to a contract in that it specifies where, how, and under what conditions it will be provided. A mutually explicit agreement exists. As a result, this position of transparency necessitates accountability. Such as determining what you require, not ignoring your deficiencies or requirements, and learning and paying for it. It's extremely fair, and it's quite straightforward.

I believe that accepting one's own loneliness is one of the most difficult things to do. Everything that occurs in this life is lonely. In every dream, we are all alone. We shall be the ones to bring them to life. We become more reliant on individuals and surroundings as a result of our rejection of loneliness. While we strive to avoid it, we come to expect it to take precedence over our responsibilities.

“Let them pick me up when they get there, call me while I'm eating, bring two plates while clearing the table, pay the bill, get such a discount, get it done before I say it, let them write some of the things that need to be written and ask for me as well,” I'm talking about seemingly innocuous things that bind our lives together with tiny strings. There is always a desire to be taken into account and acknowledged. Yes, our obligations can be overwhelming at times, and we may require assistance, but we do not have to wait for someone.

When you don't expect anything in return, living tables lend themselves to genuine sharing. The magnetic field formed by completeness and lack of agenda allows for multiplication and expansion. The sensation of incompleteness evokes the absence of something, whereas the sensation of completion evokes solid energy. Here is where abundance comes from. Your serene self-assurance, your mastery of what you do, your mastery of yourself...

Now is the time to turn off all the faucets of expectation and let the water fill your inner pool. While you're grieving on the inside, allow your richness to overflow and your life to expand by sharing!

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