How to be more human every day, less perfect and happier
Happiness does not require a fashion-model body. Accepting our flaws is the only way to be happy.
Be happy, not flawless.
You can be happy without being flawless. Perfectionism is unattainable for artists. This subtlety of imperfection can give them amazing beauty.
Today, we often make the big mistake of pursuing societal goals. Consider having a great body, house, career, or children.
Anyone who has been seduced by one of these values will have found that it leads to dissatisfaction, low self-esteem, and a sense of loss of control. his life.
Happiness is equilibrium. When we agree with ourselves. We don't need anything else or feel forced to attain what others believe is nice.
This post asks you to consider several key points.
Current trends include naïve and ingenuous practices. It concerns social media self-esteem. Take a picture of yourself with an A4 paper on your stomach.
In this photo, the females exhibit their tiny waist and “beautiful” figure. Any girl taller than this is not “perfect”.
Another method is to picture your legs to show that they are not touching. This shows that the female is slender, which everyone wants.
Many girls are shaped by these innocent "fashions" and aspire to follow these norms.
They aim to mirror society's and fashion's beauty standards. All people without this body must suffer to attain it.
Society and fashion only “disconnect” us from ourselves and lead to dissatisfaction and consumption.
Balance always arrives. Is all the effort, suffering, and unattainable goals worth it?
We suggest compelling someone who needs to be perfect or fashionable to consider the following:
Breaking external shackles to realise oneself is freedom. There's no better sensation, believe it or not.
Consider these methods to get it:
Be mindful of everything that limits your freedom (people, fashions, habits, etc.).
Freedom forces us to consider what matters most and reconciles us with our essences and inner voice.
Acceptance of flaws as authenticity
Your nose is too flat or aquiline. So what? Your uniqueness comes from a family characteristic.
Your hips are excessively broad. So what? No one would be unique if we were all robots with the same measurements.
Every feature, face attribute, and constitution makes you distinct and outstanding. If you take care of yourself, are well, and are connected to the mirror image, you will feel no more true happiness than someone who loves and accepts themselves.
Happiness doesn't depend on possessions or people. Not only gurus, personal development, or spirituality literature have this magic formula.
To be happy, we must stop being fearful and stop trying to be somebody we are not.
Without money or an ideal body, accept your flaws and be happy humbly.
Well-being is transparent. To be flawless, we must be peaceful, trust those who love us, don't criticise us, and let us be ourselves.
Please apply this and build heartfelt happiness. Remember to be happy, not perfect.