Who has the most influence on children.
Hi everyone good evening,I'm here to write about and throw more light on who is more influencial on children and their character as a whole.
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Firstly influence has to do with the power to adjust and affect ones behavior and thought,it has various ways of manipulating ones daily life, it's an umbrella groomed either positively or negative,It's inspired and motivate, build relationships and trust shape public opinion .influence has an emotional appeal, cultural norms and lot more .
Parents has the most influence on their children, specially the mothers,we can both agree that growing up as an adult, during our childhood days, mother were more fierce and emotional when it comes to discipline, reasons being that they were more like a home keeper,you see them at every corner of The house, either in; The kitchen or laundry room,all this generate an influence, specifically on the female child, though fathers has a vital role also when it comes to influencing a child,but I won't attribute such influence to that of the mother's, daddy portrait a kind of dictatorship influence, basically when it comes to social responsibilities,norms, moral values and orientation,mothers are the core values behind sure influence, meaning that here in africa in every families and house hold,mothers are the most loved by their children,in such case we clinch more on them.though the are occasions where Fathers are more influential, it could be in the aspect of a tyrant or a dictator,and this will result in a fearful kind of influence,at this point a child can only behave well when his dad is around,but mother have their ways of molding their kids to act well trained ,despite not being around.
Our world is an influential place, where we get influenced either by what we see, hear and read about,it could be in form of trending dresses,dances and behaviors,21 century is a digital and computerized world,where internet has a major influence on us,friends and govermment as a whole, but the one that sharped our moral life,values and deed,will be attributed to the parents (mothers) being that our first school of thought is our home,church and mosque aren't left behind.
Has a little boy back then,i was been influenced most by my mom, yeah she was everywhere at home,my siblings could testify about this,when she's around everyone of us gets to behave, meaning that she was really a lady of influence on us,a scenario of being outside with your groups of friends playing football, seeing her from a long mile,we get to disassociate immediately with the football game, clean up, find a comfortable corner with our books.just this scenario can make you understand how fierce she was,all this was her own way of designing us to fit in her morals standard and core values.she was my first teacher and chef,12stroke of cain wasn't enough for her.
• Do you think children can retrain themselves even when they have good backgrounds/home training. (You can give examples, if any)
In as much as no one is an island, negativity were ought to happen though,but not attributed to the determined ones, our parents, pastors and instructors won't follow us everywhere, especially when we are of age.Peer group of friends, school neighborhood has a major impact, which can cause individual to retrain their ways from what the were being taught. For instance, your neighboring environment has a way of influencing you in one way or the other,an environment where dealing on hard drugs, smoking and womanizing,one with a good background can retrain,he or she can fit in into that lifestyle if not well determined, it takes determination and change of environment,peer pressure isn't left behind,as a teenager,cases of competing with friends and being in their standard,can cause one to go astray.
Each child has a unique personality, which can affect their ability to retrain themselves. Some children might be more prone to impulsivity or rebellion. Children can develop unhealthy learning habits, such as procrastination or lack of self-discipline, which can hinder their ability to retrain themselves.
The younger ones of this generation, doesn't wait for you to show them what's right or wrong,the are watching everything that you're doing,in order to lay a good foundation, I ought to portray a good moral values knowing fully well that I'm being watched by my younger ones.
Influencing younger ones positively requires a thoughtful and intentional approach. leading by example by modeling good behavior, showing respect, and being of help. This helps create a positive environment where they feel comfortable and supported.foster a safe space where they can express themselves freely, and encourage open communication by listening actively and responding thoughtfully to them,develop their skills and interests by identifying their passions and supporting them. Teach new skills and encourage learning.
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میں اپ کی بات سے پوری طرح متفق ہوں کہ، ماں بچے کی شخصیت بنانے میں سب سے اہم کردار ادا کرتی ہے ۔اور بچے کی پہلی تربیت ماں کے ہی ذریعے شروع ہوتی ہے۔ اکثر مائیں اپنے بچوں کا ائیڈیل ہوتی ہیں اور سب سے زیادہ پیار بھی بچے کو ماں سے ہی ملتا ہے۔ مگر ہم باپ کی شخصیت کو اگنور نہیں کر سکتے۔ کیونکہ باپ اپنے گھر کا ستون ہوتا ہے اور بچے کو حفاظت کا احساس اپنے باپ کے ساتھ رہ کر ہوتا ہے باپ اس کو ہر مشکل میں سے نکال کر اسانی فراہم کرنے والی شخصیت ہوتا ہے ۔اگر مائیں اپنے بچوں کے دلوں میں ان کے باپ کی شفقت اور احساس ڈالیں تو بچہ خود بخود ماں باپ دونوں کے درمیان ایک خاص محبت کی حدود قائم کر لیتا ہے۔ اس کو نرمی اور شفقت باپ سے ہی ملتی ہے۔ جبکہ محبت اور لاڈ اس کی ماں کے حصے میں اتا ہے۔
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