I think the topic is too complex to deal with comprehensively in a Steem post. It's too complex for a doctoral thesis ;-))

I also think that among all genders there are lovely, nice, correct, ambitious, achievement-orientated, successful people as well as unreliable, lazy, dishonest, bored people. You will also find arseholes among all of them... But what is different is society's view and expectation of individuals. If a woman has many lovers, in some cultures she is at least looked at askance (in others she is executed)... A man with the same hobby is a great guy, he's got what it takes! A woman who has a career, doesn't want children and perhaps doesn't want a man is considered frigid and unfeminine. A man who becomes a nursery school teacher or a nail designer - a pussy, a failure, a wimp...

We create our own gender problems. You are right about one thing: women play a huge role in this; in the vast majority of cultures, they are the ones who are most intensively involved in bringing up the younger generations. Machos are also brought up by women...