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RE: Ich hab' keinen Bock mehr

in Deutsch Unplugged2 years ago

Your unbreakable sense of humor can guide you through difficult times. And these times, unfortunately, have come. Now you have to be strong and only God knows how much more strength is needed. The worst thing is that you will not have anyone to rely on, because you will now be the mainstay.

We can all support you in the comments, but the truth is that none of us can help. And this helplessness is disappointing.

It's a miracle that you find time for Steemit. At the same time, it is quite clear that in difficult times you want to do at least for a moment what you like.

Your mother has faced great difficulties, but at the same time she is lucky. She's lucky she has you. She has someone to rely on, she has a family member who is always ready to help. Many people dream of having such a treasure in old age, but do not have it. My mother always tells me that I am lucky to have a daughter. She has two sons, and it's just like being childless - no use :-)

I was very impressed by your post. First, not everyone can reveal such details of their personal lives to the general public. Secondly, I am very sad that you are going through this. Everyone would like life to be just joyful, and the posts were "sheep, sun, humor." Third, I'm proud to be part of the Steemit community, to which you tell about what you're going through right now, just as you would to your friends over a cup of coffee.

But remember, black stripes are always followed by white ones. If you do not believe, ask the zebra about it, it is an expert in this. So I am sure that now everything will be better every day.

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 2 years ago 

Thanks for your detailed comment. You made me laugh in places!
The second time that day. What the entire "family nursing staff" including "patient" has already laughed out loud today, I do not tell to protect privacy rights. But there is some truth in it: You have to keep your sense of humor even in such difficult situations, then many things become easier. Laughter liberates.

It actually still feels good to have the whole thing - kept relatively general, "nursing case" will have to do - written down and even published. So "a narrative in one piece" was possible. Of course, we also have friends who come to visit (briefly, always very briefly - hardly anyone can bear the situation). Or they call. But then you usually just answer questions, often not in the mood at all or too exhausted by your own depressing thoughts. So that was alright. Of course there is no help and I don't want the helplessness and cluelessness to be transferred to anyone.

Oh, it's not such a miracle that I find time for Steemit. I am not in constant use for my mother, she sleeps a lot. I clean a bit or buy groceries, otherwise I have only walks with Mäx as "obligation" here in the "exile". You can sit at the laptop for a while - and there's an internet connection in this household, too... ;-)

Haha, I have two brothers. They do try hard, but most of the time it's "Chriddi will do it...". Useless sons? Oh, at the moment my husband is helping to build a wheelchair ramp. That's actually quite useful... ;-)

So. Enough chatting. I'm off now - looking for a zebra... :-))

 2 years ago 

But remember, black stripes are always followed by white ones. If you do not believe, ask the zebra about it, it is an expert in this.

Great Words! I like it when there is still a touch of positivity.Especially in difficult times.

 2 years ago 

Haha, you know, despite the fact that Ukraine is already at war, people are already making plans to rebuild the country, move to new green technologies, develop their own science. Everyone is sure that after a wide black stripe there will definitely be a wide white one. The same is true in the life of each of us. @chriddi will definitely have a very wide and very white stripe.

 2 years ago 

The white stripes are far away right now, but I know they are already in position on the horizon.... 😊
Thanks for everything!