Thanks for your detailed comment. You made me laugh in places!
The second time that day. What the entire "family nursing staff" including "patient" has already laughed out loud today, I do not tell to protect privacy rights. But there is some truth in it: You have to keep your sense of humor even in such difficult situations, then many things become easier. Laughter liberates.

It actually still feels good to have the whole thing - kept relatively general, "nursing case" will have to do - written down and even published. So "a narrative in one piece" was possible. Of course, we also have friends who come to visit (briefly, always very briefly - hardly anyone can bear the situation). Or they call. But then you usually just answer questions, often not in the mood at all or too exhausted by your own depressing thoughts. So that was alright. Of course there is no help and I don't want the helplessness and cluelessness to be transferred to anyone.

Oh, it's not such a miracle that I find time for Steemit. I am not in constant use for my mother, she sleeps a lot. I clean a bit or buy groceries, otherwise I have only walks with Mäx as "obligation" here in the "exile". You can sit at the laptop for a while - and there's an internet connection in this household, too... ;-)

Haha, I have two brothers. They do try hard, but most of the time it's "Chriddi will do it...". Useless sons? Oh, at the moment my husband is helping to build a wheelchair ramp. That's actually quite useful... ;-)

So. Enough chatting. I'm off now - looking for a zebra... :-))