Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting and knowledgeable contest which is launched by @ciru2014 all time my favourite topic ""Time heals everything”"" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic

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Time is very powerful. There is no doubt about it, time has the power to heal even the biggest wounds. Or you can say that with time a person learns to live in those circumstances. Be it good circumstances or bad, happiness or sadness, in every situation a person learns something or the other from his experience.

Time never stops for anyone. With time people's way of thinking changes and they adapt to new circumstances. Memories, sorrows and new responsibilities get suppressed somewhere in the hustle and bustle and the person moves forward towards the future. The pain does not reduce, but yes the power to bear that pain comes.

I was in very difficult circumstances when my mother died just 5 years ago. Because there was no limit to the sorrow and loneliness. Firstly, the sorrow of losing my mother, that sorrow cannot be described at all and secondly my younger brother because he was not married yet. Why should I bother about him, he was very attached to his mother. He had become lonely, so along with the grief of his mother's death, I was very worried about him.

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But it was God's grace that soon after trying, within 6 to 7 months, my brother's marriage was fixed. The atmosphere of my house changed and new things were included, happiness came and sadness became memories and on every matter, it was just this that my mother wanted to do it this way in the marriage. So time and new circumstances brought that balm which helped us a lot in healing our wounds.

Time is not a magical solution, it can only be said that the cycle of time keeps moving and a person keeps trying to adapt to his new circumstances along with that cycle. With a hope that maybe something good will happen in the future. Time is not the solution to every situation. Now suppose if someone's husband or father dies at a young age, then whatever pain they have to face, they will face it, it is just that as time passes, they will get used to those pains or they will keep trying continuously to get rid of those pains. It does not happen with time that some money will come automatically, they will get a job. Miracles do not happen, man has to do it himself, this is my personal experience

Words have a magical effect, if a person is sad and feeling lonely, is in depression, then motivational words spoken by someone work very well. Problems come in everyone's life. But if in such a situation someone explains to them with sympathetic words or motivational words, talks to them, then the person gets a lot of courage and sometimes even finds a way forward.

Sometimes the solution to the problem is found with words only, words have a great role in our life. If a person is sad and you use such bad words then that person will become more sad. That is why while talking to someone, the words should be chosen according to the situation because one cannot joke all the time and one cannot remain sad all the time.

They always say that time changes things, but in reality you have to change them yourself (Andy Warhol

Time teaches us such experiences which change our way of thinking. Time is the teacher who teaches us such things which we remember for the rest of our lives and try to change ourselves by taking inspiration from those lessons. You will recognize your true friend only in difficult situations, this is 100% true. With time, a person gets the courage to bear his sorrows. He has to change himself himself, he has to keep himself ready for every difficult situation.

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For example

If someone in your relationship is constantly treating you with disrespect. Always tries to show you down, then until you do not give him an answer, he will keep insulting you continuously. With time, the more you tolerate the insult, it will increase. The day you give him an answer, that insult will increase. It will end the same way. That is why a person has to change himself, sometimes with time the circumstances get worse. That is why instead of giving up on time, a person should believe in himself and keep trying continuously, for a better future and a better present.

I would invite my few friends , @ahsansharif , @max-pro , @mikitaly , @mohammadfaisal , @mvchacin

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