You made a great start although I don't like the title. Selfish & Love would capture it more.

I wonder how a hard working mother can have such a spoiled selfish daughter. It sounds as if that daughter didn't copy her hard working and saving behaviour.

Past:

What spoiled it for me was the remark (mother's love).
There's no need to mention this let the reader room to think what s/he likes. This remark is also a sign it's not a story and no fiction.

The past is a dialogue

Present (start with a capital letter):

A dialogue with oneself mother's love is made clear

Current situation (start with a capital letter):

No dialogue, not Hira at word, who talks, tells this part? I would have liked it more if it was her.

Minus:

What I don't like is the fact you decide that giving birth is the most difficult thing in a woman's life.
If this is your opinion you didn't live long enough but even if you did I rather see you talk for yourself (or Hira) since women are not the same and I don't like to be labelled which I feel if I read this.

No matter how hard my life was or is I am not Hira and I cannot identify myself with her althoug we might have a lot in common.

What happens if I feel labelled, if I am given the idea I should feel like Hira? I stop feeling for her and am not interested/curious reading on because to me she has nothing intriguing to say.

The idea of writing this is very original and refreshing and overall it looks good. 👍