from my core values some are part of my essence and some are chosen as I have a clear idea of what kind of world i would hope to live in and they help me maintain it. If you really want to know who a person is you will see it best if you strip their inhibitions with drugs or hypnosis . People always say oh no it was not me who did XVZ it was my addiction or the booze talking but in truth you just saw exactly who tat person was without the mask ...