Pregnancy is identical with women

in #writing6 years ago


Pregnancy is identical with women.
Even so, you husbands also have to take part in feeling the struggle of the wife who is bearing the fruits of your love. Help and support him while going through these times.

Pregnant women can experience hormonal changes in their body.
This can make her mood uncertain like being happy, then suddenly feeling depressed, stressed, or emotionally higher.
As a good partner, do these things, let's, so your wife feels cared for and not alone in undergoing her pregnancy.

Always present at the prenatal checkup. Be a husband on standby by accompanying him every time you do a gynecological examination.
Your presence can make him feel more comfortable, and he will feel you really care about him and the baby that you 'make' together.

If you can accompany him in each of these examinations, surely he will really appreciate it.
Besides that, you can also find out the condition of your baby from being still formless to growing with a perfect form.
This is a priceless experience for parents and emotional closeness can be formed early on with your child.

Love his body. Pregnant women are often stressed and not confident with body shape changes, aka fat.
Some men see a woman's body look sexy when pregnant, but some are not.
If you are one of those who do not like it, please do not say that in front of your wife. Raise his confidence by saying that he still looks attractive with his enlarged body.
Also tell him not to stress, because weight gain during pregnancy is very important for fetal growth in the womb.

Be the father of the household. Maybe for you to do housework is something that is 'not bad'.
But if you want to do it to help your two-bodied wife, you will look like a real man.
So, you don't need to be proud to hold a broom and cloth to clean the house.

Participate in choosing baby gear. Men may not like being invited to tour the shopping center for hours. However, if you need to buy baby gear, take your time.
Help your wife choose clothes for your child, such as participating in the selection of models and colors of clothes.

Sex affairs.

Women who are not pregnant can sometimes not be confident with their bodies, especially those who are two bodies.
Your wife may be reluctant to have sex because of this problem. However, you must convince himself that weight is not important.
Make sure that he still looks sexy. Even so, you also have to understand that in this period pregnant women are experiencing uncertain mood changes. So, don't force it when he refuses to be invited to make love.

If you avoid intimate relationships during this time because assuming sex can have a bad effect on the baby, then remove that thought. Having sex while pregnant is safe to do, really.

Read information about pregnancy. Knowing all about pregnancy can make it easier for you to accompany your wife who is two-bodied.
You can read articles about pregnancy or ask your mother or friends who have experienced it. You can ask, "What are the conditions experienced by pregnant women? or "What foods should be avoided by pregnant women?"

Live better. During pregnancy, your wife must live a healthy lifestyle.
Therefore, you must be able to create a comfortable environment for him.
For example, if you smoke, try, bro, to learn to stop smoking. Or if you can't stop this habit, try not to smoke around your wife. If your wife is a smoker, you can advise her not to smoke and don't let cigarettes or cigarette butts remain scattered around your house.

Make him feel cared for. Pamper your wife while she doesn't ask for things that don't make sense.
When he asks to be massaged because of fatigue, do it with pleasure, or you can immediately offer to massage it before going to bed without being told. If he wants to eat certain foods and it's still easy to reach, fill his cravings.

You can also capture these moments by becoming a personal photographer.
Portrait of each development of his body from the beginning of the womb until the stomach enlarges.

Believe it or not, nine months will feel so fast rolling. So, just enjoy the seconds that happen until the time comes for the Little One to be born into the world.

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