Aggressive Children

As a first point, children who hit once or have a tantrum are not necessarily aggressive, we talk about those children who, in their day to day, solve everything by blows. I have read some articles about this topic, and with this experience as an initial education teacher, I have been able to verify that everything has a reason why? the aggressive child must be educated not with aggressiveness but with authority.

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How to act before a child that you will get attention for something you do, little accord and become violent, with blows, throwing things, screaming. There are some parents, who act in a wrong way, call the bad children, punish them with blows, shouting and definitely with this action what they do is accentuate their behavior.

Another situation is that when they become aggressive, some parents give what they ask, in order to calm their malpractice, this action will be like a reward for their attitude, it will take it as a habit because it is the way to achieve what they want, as you can see the two cases are extreme.

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The aggressive behavior of a child is given for various reasons. It is important to find the origin of aggression, for example that has parents with the same behavior, for everything is directed with aggression, screams, blows, making the child does not know what the rules or limits. On the contrary we find the parents who are permissive that allow everything, making them believe that they have control over everything or simply those who disapprove of most of their activities, whose reaction will be revealed and demonstrate their aggressiveness.

You also have to evaluate your environment, your social touch, your friends, family, community, television channels, among others. In conclusion, it is the parents who are tutors, they must be on the lookout and try to include them in their activities, some of which can capture their attention and depending on their tastes.

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In case your behavior at school is even more accentuated, one of the actions is to take it to a pediatric psychologist or child psychologist and give the teacher the report issued by the doctor, so that he can use the most appropriate strategies. assertive, to keep child attentive and busy.

I hope that my writing serves as a contribution, to observe more closely some of the reasons why some children present that aggressive attitude, although only love and under.

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