Fighting is really tough in a relationship. I had a girlfriend for 4 years once, we lived together.
By the end I felt everything she said to me was sending negative vibrations right to my heart. We had went into a negativity spiral and I didn't want to touch her at all, like in your poem. I could only associate her with the pain she made me feel.
I like how the last paragraph has the happy couple too, because it makes you think how most unhappy couples start happy, and also how there is always another chance after failure.
Thanks for sharing that. It’s so interesting to hear about it from a guy’s POV. It doesn’t occur to us (women) that there are reasons why men lose their desire for intimacy.
And yes, there is always another chance for happiness, either with the one you’re currently with or when you’re ready to move on to someone new.
Thank you also for the 50/50 tip. I still have lots to learn about Steem rewards, wallet, etc. I dug into the white paper tonight but have more to read.
Sometimes a guy wants more than a tight pair of yoga pants... sometimes 😋
Hopefully I'll meet a girl I like soon.
Hang in there. It takes time. I met my hubby online. It was a long-distance relationship at first. I don't ordinarily recommend that, but it worked for us. The thing that stands out about my relationship with him is that it feels easy. It's not easy all of the time, of course, but it's easy most of the time. I think that's how it's supposed to be.
On a dating website?
Yes, we met on match.com. The competition, I think, is worse for men on Match, which, of course, worked out for me :) If you have the stomach for it christianmingle.com has a higher ratio of women to men, so that could work out better for you. That wasn't my thing, though, and if it's not yours, there are things you can do on match.com or similar websites to help stand out. Maybe I should work on a post about this...