Good article and well said.. I try to do that with most challenges in life. Though I can think of at least one exception to the rule, where I did not want to try to learn from it or grow, even if that happened.. It wasn't something I looked at like that. And I still don't and refuse to. But for 99% of the other time.. I always try to look at hardship and struggle as something that is a learning experience and that will make me in a sense stronger or more understanding of the world due to experiencing it.