Agony of a woman

Though, most men acts and believed that they do ladies/women lot of favour by asking for their hands in marriage,this mentality inhibited by most men keeps me contemplating ,and most time I ask myself why?.now let me tell you something you need to know:
*A woman changes her name and start bearing the husband name

• she leaves her beloved home all because of you
  *she leave her family to help you(man) create your own
  *she moves in with you
  *she help you build your own
  *you inserted your juice and she got pregnant all for you alone
  *the pregnancy though destroyes her body, making her to loose her shape
  *she is doing this for her marriage, because she believes that is the most important part
  *she almost laid lifeless in the labour room, even to the extreme of point of death, she have been doing all this because of you, my question is that in all this she is going through, who is doing who a favour? I love my mom, my sisters and to other women I celebrate, you all are wonderful creature who holds the world