I'd like to remove the icy layer that surrounds the inner me, because my personality is considerably warmer. People always tell me their first impression is that I'm a block of wood, I'm passive and I'm cool (not the fashionably cool, but the personality cool, the uncaring cool). Actually, I'm quite active, and I enjoy the company of others, but you need to break through all that ice to reach that. So I'd like to remove that layer of ice. @tatjanastan