I was hell bent on seeing to the end of this great writeup. Great job, I must confess.
However, I feel you stereotyped your article geographically to just Africa. The truth is someone from the west may well not agree with the some of the points you highlited, especially, the part that underscored the need for a woman to be a kitchen asset. Over there, some of the things we are fanatical about, they succeeded in demystifying them many years back. So if you were a marriage acounselor, what would you say to a white lady whose values don't align with ours? Don't also forget: A number of them who are in their late 30s and not married, are not necessarily looking for husband. These guys are adventurous.
Great article though.
Thanks for bringing us in on your thoughts.