WE DO NOT AGREE ON ANY MATTER

Undoubtedly, one of the biggest problems of today's people is the inability to communicate correctly. Moreover, even though they use the same language and share the same culture. In fact, if we deepen the examples, we see that even siblings from the same parents cannot get along with each other in some places. Such a situation makes people feel odd, even upset.

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Do you think all this is not a situation to be strange? What do we not share, but we tend to argue and fight with each other right away? However, if we listen to each other and decide after that, maybe there will not be a situation that requires discussion. Maybe we will take care of the problems without worrying, stressing ourselves. But to do this, effective communication is essential. We will need to confirm why someone we accuse did so, whether the accusation was correct or not. Unfortunately, many of us don't do this. Or we don't want to do it.

Because it is easier for us to come to the fill of others and blame the other. We do this without even thinking about whether such a thing would be true or not. This situation also shows us how weak character we are. It is the simplest to blame someone, defame him… What if the situation is not what we thought? That's when we hit the ax on the stone. We are the biggest losers in this situation.

If our injustice occurs at the end of such an event, we have to ask ourselves how do I look at people's faces. The tongue has no bone, it speaks whatever comes its way. But it's up to you to stop it. Be you, always be restrained in your relationships with people. Do not judge them without understanding and listening. If we judge, disputes arise. Then we say, we do not get along.

Why can't you get along? The other person has two hands, two feet and a mouth just like you. So where is the problem? The problem is ours, the problem is ourselves. In such problematic relationships, we must first question ourselves and then question the other. While doing this, one needs to be constructive and not destructive. It should be our priority to focus on the solution, not the problem. Otherwise, it is certain that we will always be doomed to lose. Today we lose the existence of an ordinary acquaintance, tomorrow a close friend, and who knows, our own brother the next day. We need what we have earned, not what we lost. Because man survives with his friends, not with his enemies.