What must go, must go... ;-))

Respect is one of those things... In the past, in the days of my grandparents and probably my parents too, respect for the elderly was just as much a principle here as it is with you. In my generation, respect became something mutual. I also think that respect should not come naturally, but should be earned. Through behaviour, appearance, attitude...

And it's absolutely okay to disagree respectfully, to make different decisions, to not follow advice... ;-))