RE: Diary entry # 4 / جیؤ اور جینے دو
Each nation has its own cultural code. The codes may differ. But usually most of these codes include respect for elders.
I can't give you advice or judge your actions in any way. I can only tell you what I might do myself in a similar situation.
If a senior person I respect insists on something, I will let them do it. But that doesn't mean at all that I will do as he demands. It all depends on the situation.
You're very emotional :)
If we're talking about an old man, it's complicated. He could have accumulated a lot of psychological problems during his life (starting from childhood :).
There is a phrase that helps me sometimes: "A doctor doesn't take offence at the sick" :))))
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У каждого народа существует свой культурный код. Коды могут отличаться. Но обычно в большинстве таких кодов прописано уважение к старшим.
Я не могу давать тебе советов или как-то оценивать чти-то действия. Могу только сказать, как могу поступить сам в подобной ситуации.
Если кто-то старший УВАЖАЕМЫЙ мной человек будет на чём-то настаивать, я позволю ему это сделать. Но это совсем не означает, что я буду делать так, как он того требует. Всё зависит от ситуации.
Ты очень эмоциональна :)
Если речь идёт о старом человеке, то тут всё сложно. За свою жизнь он мог накопить много психологических проблем (начиная с детства:)
Есть такая фраза, которая меня иногда выручает: "Доктор на больных не обижается" :))
Thanks for the reality check ✅ 🫣
I agree respectfully :)
The actions won't be judged if the individual isn't biased in their behavior towards different groups of people. Additionally, they are in the later bracket of the elderly (80-plus).
If the individual is relatively younger, of sound mental health, and displays partial disrespect, then I have every right to be pissed (upset).
On the one hand every person is free to express his emotions and it is even useful to keep healthy :))))
But social groups (societies) agree to play by the rules. As a rule, all these rules and agreements limit the personal freedom of each person And there is a conflict of interest in this :)
Hmm...
Interesting, but then rules should be same for all players 🤔
Not all players play by the rules ))