Learning Love At Khadija
Learning Love At Khadija
As good as the woman of her day was Maryam the daughter of Imran and as good as the woman of her people was Khadijah. (Narrated by Bukhari Muslim)
If there is a woman who makes Aisyah so jealous, then she is Khadija. If there is a woman who can make the Messenger of Allah remember him all the time, even when he is with his wife's wife, then Khadija is the person, and with Khadija is the Messenger of Allah.
The Story of Ummul-Kukatat Woman Khadijah RA. It is a story full of Glory, a story full of examples. Ink history has recorded its privileges. He left Beautiful Example for the Believers, not just the mantra of Karimah but how he worshiped, married, and made love.
All the privileges he possessed made him a lucky Woman of all time. He gets true Love from beloved GOD. In fact he was the first woman to get the news into heaven and get a Greeting Greeting from ALLAH Subhanahu Wa Ta 'ala.
Khadijah's morals should be a picture of how a wife should behave to her husband. Who is able to give Happiness to His family and finally formed a family that Sakinah, Mawaddah, and Rahmah.
- Accept the husband as he is
This is the first example he teaches as recorded in History. Khadijah is a wealthy lady in Mecca. With the treasures and the beauty of which many of his men wanted to ask for him. But Khadija preferred Muhammad who had nothing.
Muhammad's poverty did not make Khadija embarrassed, He so loved and accepted Muhammad as-is. For Khadija treasure is not everything, but the Goodness and Distraction of the Prophet is the main choice.
- Always exist when the husband needs
During his time with the Prophet, Khadijah was always with him in joy and sorrow. Even when there was a boycott by the Quraysh, he became a very loyal friend. Not one bit complains about everything that happens to his family.
- Full of affection and attention to husband
This is exactly what the husbands needed, including the Prophet Muhammad, Khadija who had this holy love was able to devote attention, to the Prophet Muhammad, so that he never hurt the very wife in the Love of it.
Even the Messenger of Allah said: "Khadija believed when the Gentiles to me, he justified me when people denied me, and he helped with his treasure when people got in the way.
- Saying wisely and soothingly
Always support every thing that contains the Truth. It was Khadija who calmed the Messenger of Allah when he got the first revelation.
The Prophet trembled, he went to Khadija, then said: 'Blow me! Blanket me! 'Khadijah wrapped him up until he lost his fear then the Prophet said to Khadija and told him what happened.'I really worried about myself,' he said to his wife.
So Khadijah said: 'No, Allah will not humiliate you forever. Surely you really enjoy connecting silaturrahim, bearing the burden of others, giving something to the poor, entertaining the guests, and giving assistance when there are really serious disasters. '
- Educate children well
One of the privileges of Khadija in the appeal of the wife of the Prophet's wife the other. From Khadijah Rasulullah get offspring.
Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: "ALLAH grant me Son from him, when HE did not give me child from wife of my other wife.
- Get along well with your husband
Both understand the rights and obligations of each so calm his household.
- Chastity and patience
This is what Khadija did at that moment became the monthly moon of Quraizy insult society. Tawakal and Sabar have given positive energy to both, so as to be able to face it all.
Some properties of the above properties are a fraction of the brilliance it possesses. Hopefully it will be useful and hopefully someday we will be his neighbor in Heaven. "Aamiin."
Hopefully Helpful Aminnn ....