19 Things That Are Making You A Loser. 

in #success8 years ago (edited)

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1 Worrying about shit that already happened

Yup if you stay stuck in the past you will never move forward it is that simple. want to change were you re today. Become someone new tomorrow.

2 Stuck in your Happy Place

If you remain were only you feel comfortable nothing new or noteworthy will ever happen to you. So get out of your comfort zone.

3 Worrying About What Others Think

Never worry about what others people opinions are. They are usually fueled by complacency and jealousy and if you are trying to better yourself they will do all they can to bring you down.

4 Being Afraid of Change

If you don't like they person you are today then you have permission to change it now. So do not wait for change embrace it and start today.

5 Not being Open Minded

Everything in life has value it is up to you to determine if you want to learn from it. Keep an open mind and seek the value from all scenarios.

6 Let Someone Else Make Decisions For You

Be your own person. Think for yourself. Trust YOURSELF.

7 Getting Jealous

Never let the success of other make you jealous. They put their pants on just like you Stop being a victim and do some cool shit yourself.

8 Worry About Failure

You will fail a lot in life. Failure is inevitable if you are striving for big goals. Don't get stuck on it. Learn from your mistakes and keep moving forward.

9 Feeling Sorry For Yourself

NO one wants to hear about your problems.

10 Not Calculating Your Next Move

No matter were you are now if you want to move forward you need a plan. Write that shit on a piece of paper and start implementing the plan.

Remember...

The plan doesn't need to be perfect but it needs to be in place for you to follow.

Life is like a game of chess.

Know what each piece does and how you can use it to your advantage.

11 Being Misunderstood

Communication is key. State your points and stand your ground.

12 Being a Victim

No one owes you anything. Don't expect a handout. Man up and take responsibility for your actions.

13 Being impatient

Patience is a virtue. Although good things come to those who wait make sure you actively go out and create the good things you want to come to you.

14 Not Reading Books

It is simple...

Get smarter.

No one likes a boring guy.

15 Making The Same Mistake Twice

Learn from your mistakes, grow from them, but never keep making the same ones.

16 Not lifting weights

Lifting weights keeps you younger, gives your more energy, boosts your testosterone, sheds fat, and builds muscle.

My guess is you need more of all of that listed above.

17 Not Taking Risks

All good things come when you feel the most out of your comfort zone.

Never be afraid to get the job promotion...

Never be afraid to kiss the girl...

Never be afraid to lift heavier weight...

All of them build character.

18 Not Caring About The Food You Put In Your Mouth

Diet is key when it comes to achieving your goals, optimizing your hormones, giving you energy, and keeping you looking healthy.

Don't slack on it.

Count your macros and know what you are eating.

19 Not Dressing Well

I am sure you new this one was coming :)...

Dress for success and show the world you care how you look.

No one likes a slob.

I hope you enjoyed this list feel free to forward the email to anyone you know needs a kick in the ass.

Lets do some big things together.

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Yeah, but do you even lift bro? :P

Great advice! I may be guilty of 18, 16, and at some level 3.. As far as I know.

All and all, solid tips!