You must have to sacrifice so much to offer your womb to act as a vessel making way for the entry of life. Fertility is the most attractive thing about a woman in my point of view. I don't have a child. But, children come with a set of alluring things for the human race. Speaking of the thinking minds conflicts. I suspect the feeling elements of adolesent psychology are equally as important for sand play regression. It's wonderful to have the opportunity to get on the level of a child. Where the news doesn't come into play. And, all there is to do is play. I've studied the adolesent psychology of children to better understand myself. Women go through a metamorphosis while pregnant that comes with a set of new beginnings. I suppose supporting a woman in a worship style way is the intent of any daddy. In real life, like the scrapes on our knees heal over time. But, not entirely. Of course you'll feel the stress of the sacrifice that comes with cultivating the mind of a child. Imagine the mind of a puppy, and how praising it correctly can result in the worlds best companion. Wouldn't it be great to be planned and prepared ahead of time for the challenges that come with a collective of unexpected to come while pregnant? But, it's impossible. Is it a boy or a girl? Are you worried about buying baseball gloves or ballet slippers? To have a healthy baby must be the most stress relieving feeling. I suppose you'll have to deal with the set of potential traumas that are for balancing before the moment of birth. The recollection of things often mirrors our reactions when facing different situations. Some are cool, calm, and collected in times where others have lost their mind. It's possible to go in a world without daddy shaming. But, I'm sure it's happened. I wouldn't view a child as a loss of my independence as much as a fulfillment in the role of fatherhood. I met a nice man who said; "Kids don't come with a guide book." Woman have more opportunity than ever before in the world. The role of motherhood didn't slow down the pioneers favorable to extend the right for a woman to vote. Did you know that in some places in Switzerland women didn't have the right to vote before the 1990's. The society today is a population thats very large and growing exponentially. Even so, every life is valuable. The fantasy child is one that's different for everyone. If, I haven't referred to you as a mother. Then, forgive me for doing so. Congratulations on motherhood! To me you're the @steemblogger! It must be a special time for you, the daddy, and the child growing within. I call myself DaddyKid and I'm neither. But, I want to be both! lol! You're an interesting person. Best of luck with your Steemit account and family.