Failures and Second Chances

This was one of the epiphanies and realizations I had from approximately five years ago. I was young and stupid, well up until now probably. I used to be so serious about failures and mistakes up to the point of wanting to put-out the rage so badly. The rage never came out though as I was really scared of my grandma’s annoyingly loud and tormentingly swift scolding habits. I was living with her during that time. So I had no choice but to put up with her. But don’t get me wrong, I so love my granny a lot, actually it’s more than a lot, a hectare would be more precise.

As I stumbled upon this old writing earlier today while I was scanning through my Dropbox portfolio, I realized something. Can you guess what’s the first thing I realized as I was reading it?

I barely improved my writing. My writing still sucks in my own perspective. But yeah, whatever. I want to share this one since everyone goes through all of these things all the time. So here it is;

PS. This was a note to myself so I wrote it in a 2nd person’s point of view.

“Everyone fails but only few gets back up. Our failures are just requirements for self-growth and it’s all up to you on how you are going to deal with them. People tend to breakdown on such situations. The saddest part is that, you just let everything be by default. Nature is intelligently designed with interestingly massive obstacles. They are meant to make each and everyone of us stronger and bolder, but it can also destroy everybody’s dreams forever. Basically, chances are unlimited and opportunities are infinite, they just tend to get harder and harder as time passes.

These obstacles should be taken seriously as they will be your guide to achieve your self-proposed plans and goals. There are a lot of destructions along the way, but these destructions could also be so much fun and it’s good to jive with them and probably gain priceless knowledge and wisdom which you can use to overcome probable future circumstances. Take every failure as a challenge and treat every success as a continuous struggle.

Benefit from everything you undergo and always consider every possible factor when constructing future plans. In this way, you can get wiser and stronger. The world is constantly changing and you have been motivated wrongly. As a survivalist, you strive every day for the wrong reasons, but you tend to think that there’s nothing you can do about it but just live with them. This is in fact the very reason why you drown from your mistakes so hauntingly. But why didn’t you realize the complete opposite of the present situation?

As for all of you that is reading this right now, I sincerely hope this would be something for you to reflect on :)

Ganjhot Champloo
Communicator
USTP

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