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Even Gods Say at Corinthians 13 that "Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres." also in 1 John 3:18 "Let us not love with words or tongue, but with actions and in truth."