The day we recieved Christ as our Lord and saviour was the day the Holy Spirit brought the fullness or the totality of Christ in us. We have the love of God in us according to

Romans 5: 5 And hope makes not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who is given unto us.
This means we can also love as Christ loved us and again in another scripture the bible says God will put His fear in in His people under the new covenant:

And they shall be my people, and I will be their God: And I will give them one heart, and one way, that they may fear me for ever , for the good of them, and of their children after them: And I will make an everlasting covenant with them, that I will not turn away from them, to do them good; but I WILL PUT MY FEAR in their hearts Jeremiah 32:38-40

They are not going to work automatically just because they are in our hearts but we must exercise it or put them into practice. We must learn to fear God and to love Him.