Speaking of trust and looking for something everyday to compare it to, I think trust is like a bridge over a river. We need time and a lot of effort to build it. For it to last, it must have good foundations. But it only takes one small mistake for this bridge to collapse.
When someone disappoints us or betrays us, it's like that bridge that is destroyed, it breaks, even when forgiveness comes, doubts still remain and that's where we must work very hard on ourselves to regain trust.
Rebuilding trust isn't just about saying "sorry" and pretending everything happened as if nothing had happened. Rebuilding trust requires patience and, above all, actions that demonstrate that everything is different now. Trust isn't just about eloquent, sweet words; trust is demonstrated through actions.
It is not only a challenge for those who have hurt or let someone down regarding trust, the challenge is also for those who were hurt, since regaining trust is simply an act of faith, of courage, since trusting again implies risking experiencing something similar again, being hurt or being let down.
But if you must know that we cannot and should not live with our hearts closed and blocked forever, we have to go on with life and the evidence will be the demonstration of true change, trust can also rebuild, even if there are scars that we glimpse And that do not show how fragile it is, it only depends on us to trust again and not waste time, much less life, holding a grudge or believing that we will never be able to regain trust.
They have lost trust in you, I invite you to make an effort and not to hesitate when taking action and showing that they can trust you again, and if you are in the place of that person who has stopped trusting someone, I invite you to choose us, observe and allow yourself to trust again.
