If you don't like how your relationship works, "CHANGE IT."

in #steem18 days ago


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One of the most important aspects of a human being's life is relationships, and even more so relationships with your partner. If your relationship with your partner isn't working the way you'd like, simply change it. I'm not talking about your partner, I'm talking about your relationship, hahahahaha.

Relationships are very challenging because they mean two completely different worlds are coming together, even though they may be somewhat similar in some ways. They're two stories, two people with different ways of thinking, and each person sees life from their own perspective. Having a good relationship isn't a matter of luck. Day after day, it takes work and a lot of effort, patience, and, above all, assertive communication.

Today, I want to share with you some points we should keep in mind to work on and improve our relationship: there's something key, and I'm talking about communication. It all starts with the way we communicate. Many people think it's simply about talking and communicating, but it's not just about talking; it's also about listening, and both of us doing it assertively. Generally, when someone is talking to us, we unconsciously think about what we're going to respond to, and we forget to understand or validate what the other person is trying to communicate.

And for this, I want to share a super practical tip with you: set aside a time, at least once a week to start, to make it quality time to talk without distractions. Talk and express important things, or simply anything that isn't important but with the goal of connecting. This seems too simple, but if it were, everyone would do it. If you turn this into a habit, you'll strengthen your relationship much more than you can imagine. If you follow this recommendation or advice to the letter, I'm sure you'll thank me, since I believe this is the core of everything that can make a relationship improve considerably in record time.

Now all you have to do is put this one piece of advice into practice and begin to see the changes in your partner. This isn't all, since I want to continue sharing with you some more tips that are also important for you to apply to achieve the results you desire. See you in the next post.