If you've ever had a partner or have a partner, I'm sure you've argued at some point. But be careful; arguing isn't always a bad thing.
Generally, people think arguing is a bad thing and that's why they avoid it. However, it's important not to avoid arguments; instead, we need to learn how to manage them. This can help strengthen the relationship much more completely instead of causing any kind of damage.
Let's always remember that the argument isn't the problem; the problem lies in how we carry it out. When we learn to express what we feel and think without generalizing, without judging, without blaming, or without attacking, arguments become constructive conversations.
How can we argue properly? The first point is learning to listen. In an argument, we usually only worry about winning and forget to understand what the other person is trying to convey. Once we learn to listen, the situation changes completely. Another very serious problem is criticizing the person instead of focusing on the problem. You've probably said or been told, "You're always doing the same thing." Instead, you might say, "I feel bad when this happens." Here we must learn to use words much better; well-used language changes everything. It is also very important that we learn to argue at the best time, not when we are angry or tired. A discussion must be carried out in a good environment and under the best conditions.
Understanding all this, we can say that arguments can separate us, break down, or dissolve a relationship, as well as help us strengthen the relationship with respect and empathy. A well-directed discussion can considerably improve communication within a couple, strengthening the commitment of both partners.
