A picture and story: The poor happy soul.
You know what they say about life? Happiness is life and life is happiness. Imagine you live a live of no happiness, imagine you living but there is no single joy in your life, it's gonna be frustrating and nothing at all will be sweet for such an individual.
I love something about this young boy, listening to his story got me tears but I saw happiness in him and that's all that matters. He is an orphan, his mother died after two years of delivery. His mother had a co- wife and there has been hatred from under. The co-wife poisoned her which lead to her death.
Ali's step mother hated him somuch and never want anything good to cross his path, all she is concerned about is her children and their well being. She gets irritated whenever she sees this poor orphan. Ali was just but a small boy, he was watching his step mother showing such difference but he never bordered.
All he always wanted is to get food to eat. His step mother gives him food but a very little quantity but even at that, he is always happy. She pretends whenever the father is home and then goes back to her maltreatment whenever he is gone for work.
She never take care of Ali, most times he looks dirty because she only baths her children, but remember that Ali is just but a boy who is till growing, he wouldn't know when exactly to bath as no one was there to take care of him.
Fortunate for Ali, he grow up becoming a smart boy, he loves dancing and dances on every stage, on a faithful occasion, he got an award to be well taken cared in America and he also have the chance of attaining every level of education he wants. That was how things turn around for Ali and now he is in his higher school studying in America.
LESSON
Dear parents, live every child around you, wether ugly or handsome and perhaps there is no ungly being at all. Treat your children equally and the Almighty will bless you bountifully.
Destiny is in God's hands no matter how shattered a live may look now, just a day things will turn around. Success!
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I never heard of: Life is happiness and I don't know who said that but it doesn't make sense unless you are into SM and love to suffer,
Have a look at your lesson:
Dear parents, live every child around you.. .live?????
Love can not be forced and children are rarely what parents expect from them, and it works the other way round as well. By far not all parents are what we children hoped for.
I find it very hard to believe that you are able to love everyone around you!
I appreciate your presence on my blog, You spot out my mistakes, thank you very much ma. I know that every child would love to be loved by his or her parents and I have seen situations where a step mother maltreats children that doesn't come from her. At some point, if that child do not see love from his parents you will realise that the child will start moving his ways and he or she can become frustrated. So, thank you once more .
Let'snotpretend that all stepmothers are monsters. How about mothers? Or fathers? Let's say paremts or caretakers should be able to give warmth. Love has to grow. No matter if you are the biological parent or not and this takes time. Let's not pretend it is easy to raise children. I have 5 of myself and 12 foster children and each one of them is different and so are my feelings for them. What one needs the other doesn'tcare about. It's not love but being noticed, fewling safe, a home and the possibility to express oneself and receiving help on the journey of life.
Can you describe what love is? It has many shapes and saying "I love you" is useless if it can't be felt or these are just words said out of habit.
My grandmother said she had a stepmom who took a man with a bunch of children. She said that can't be easy. Sacrificong yourself for strangers seeing you as the enemy, the forced upon replacement of their mother.
I know how it is to be unwanted and I would have been the first selling her parents if that would have been an option. Instead I beared it and left at the age of 15 and never returned. There are many like me and we build a good life, a home for us while others prefer to feel sorry for themselves and never leave and are huminalted till the end of time.
How we start is not up to us, how we are raised is not free chouce but how we handle and act is.
Ithought and this is what I to the woman said: if we would have been strangers we would have never greeted or become friends so let's live our lives and ignore another. This is the last respect I can give you. If she undeestood what I meant I doubt but for a teenager I still believe these were wise words and I never regretted it.it was the best thing I did for me.
Am I frustrated? No.
Can be I am more a thinker and know myself bettee than most people.
I like to add that what most parents see as love is no love at all. If childrem grow up the relationship changes. It's not the baby we hold and feed but the personality we see and that personality can be someone we dislike.
A happy day.
I've picked alot from your content ma, you have given me reasons to see love from the other side and not just the way I thought it is, we learn everyday and I will be very glad to have you correct me, thank you.