Spirit Psychology - My Cosmic Toolkit For A Soul Adventure On Earth

My journey to Nirvana has been littered with the universal winds of change in the form of contrast a designer soul theme for attaining the highest order of consciousness. The right of passage is reincarnation a never-ending cycle of soul rebirth as a human on a planet of peculiar interplay in how we connect with people, places, and our chosen way of life. Here, the human element can strangle the souls' progress down in the trenches of Mother Earth, through recurring patterns that repeat on command as psychology. A studious look at how we tick as a human through our experiences here on earth and the impact they have on the conscious and unconscious mind. For example, a child may endure physical and emotional abuse under the care of their primary guardians causing deep wounding and a car wreck of psychological issues. Our childhood trauma can cause mayhem in adult life. and interactions with other battle-weary people who also carry the scars of earlier injustice. My reference is a misunderstanding of why I chose the romantic partners I did and as a lesbian called in emotionally unavailable women. This has prompted me to consider the need for a new awareness and knowledge of psychology so we can self-manage our experiences to achieve healthier approaches to all aspects of an evolving human existence.

'Walking through minefields with conditioned patterns hampering our every move could be replaced with a conscious intelligence of our inner issues and why we feel the way we do'

This could be feeling displaced as a gay female in a world with a biased mindset. Or repetitive choices in partners who are co-dependent or controlling. With the basic tools of psychology, we could negotiate our options with an educative stance instead of walking blindly into circumstances with the unconscious mind in the pilot's seat. It is from here our flight can get shaky as the memory of past behaviors is reignited as a program stored in our subconscious from the day we were born to our first kiss or relationship. These events may lie dormant until triggered by a present moment that registers the emotions taken on board from a similar happening. As conscious humans, we steer our course armed with a script of reincarnation and all we have learned thus far. Every moment is recorded in our subconscious and this is where life can get messy especially if the suppressed emotions of past abuse are held in the abyss of the unconscious, The hidden factor of our psyche that raises its often ugly head in the form of depression and other related illness is painful stuff we bury until the time we are ready to bring it up for a review. Once again the interactions of life can be the fuse that lights a path for true healing as I discovered years after a sexual abuse when my emotions were triggered and I realized the true effects this event had on my body and heart. You never really know how deep the pain goes until something trips the unconscious memory and you revisit the visuals of what happened and how it made you feel. This is a defining moment and opening for healing from fear and trauma.

'The sad part is if we hold onto the terror of a situation we may learn destructive habits like medicating with alcohol and drugs to numb it out rather than face it head-on'

Sounds easy in theory but I have learned the sooner we face the demons lurking in our unconscious the more our lives will be restored with understanding and awareness of what happened and why we could not handle the side effects of such a terrifying ordeal. In fact, finding the courage to front my own personal tragedies (and there have been a few) has created a stronger, self-loving woman who is armed with the tools to navigate her journey no matter what happens along the way. This has taught me to appreciate the power of psychological skills and how as people living on a planet of unexpected circumstances we can greatly help ourselves. My analytical Mercury mind allows for a stronger knowing of this human I am and how I can get the best out of her as she walks this eccentric path as a soul and earthly mortal. I learn from the best and have collected a repertoire of ways to interpret my feelings no matter how introspective this sensitive soul is. I look around and see my fellow humans struggling with their gaping wounds so infected from past violations with no resolution. I also notice my lesbian sister harboring the hurt of rejection from parents and religions that shun her for loving only women. This leads me to the dramatic effect of aversion therapy a still-used weapon for converting gays into good straight citizens. This is done in the name of a God that discounts a part of their own creation as sinful or not in line with the vision of what humans should look or act like.

'The god or divine I understand works with me to co-create a universe of expansion that overflows to my personal experience as an eternal soul on an expedition of conscious advancement'

It is here I take each moment as a symbolic way to evaluate my place in the cosmos and as a flesh and blood entity another mastermind of this source, god or divine. Coupled with an awareness of my light-body origins as a soul while hitting the boardwalk periodically as a member of the human race brings me to a sense of connection with the stars and Planet Earth. The schoolyard for animated intimacy in all aspects of earthly life. Tightly clutching my pre-ordained proposal of how my soul can sparkle its essence of light sets a mindset of forward motion. This journey of adventure brings a soul close-up with contrast as all kinds of actions and emotions are played out for the higher echelons of spiritual expansion. We get to feel hurt, love, and euphoria. A package of human sentiments stylized for the path and purpose we set forth on. One day we may be watching a sunrise on the beach while another may bring heartache as a loved one leaves this earth. The array of experiences begins from the day we are born till we meet our loved ones on the other side. In between is a magnitude of crazy, confusing, and conscious choices. All are tailored to achieve the magic elixir we call growth. A mysterious mix of light bulb moments and lightning bolts that test the validity of who we are and how much we think we know. This is the light-filled ladder to enlightenment a spiritual quest of an unknown quantity fueled by a soul's desire to seek the holy grail of awareness. From this, a human heightens their view of the world and what lies beneath the surface of what we have been told is true.

'It's an insatiable crusade that once begun opens doors to a deeper understanding of our role in this transcendent universe'

Now we are not only human but inspiringly spiritual adding a dynamic of intuitive sentience to our mortal stockpile. The puzzle fits and life has decidedly changed. It is at this point the relationship we have with ourselves and others can be tested as those who hold comfort in this 3-D hologram feel the discomfort of our altered state of perception. All that has happened is a connection to the divine a creator of infinite love. And this unravels most of what we have learned as students of Planet Earth. What happens next is life-altering when the conscious mind meets an ethereal entourage and the news we are not alone but share this complex cosmos with spirits and angels that guide our soul journey. It is like a huge hello to another family with us all along. And with this knowledge, we can set forth on this often precarious life journey as part of a cosmic and earthly team. This is the angelic art of co-creation. The mainstay of our mortal pathway as a conscious way to expand this universe and the resonance of divine mastery sought through our human experience. So what could make this trek through an array of worldly and personal events easier on our psyche? The answer is packing a tool kit of appreciation for the hardships and highs we might encounter so each wild and weird happening can be evaluated and understood. It's an awake hike through the recesses of our epic human form, Engineered for the processing of moment-by-moment affairs of a soul's heroic tour on earth. The intrepid manual of life's hurts and hurdles is a must-have in today's hot spots of psychological malfunction. The problem is we have learned to do things in ways that deter our happiness.

'Our wires get crossed by way of interaction where outcomes are anything from family abuse to codependent tendencies and control tactics to enslave another human'

It's a rampant message of decay in our romantic relationships where one or both partners bring with them their own set of rules and conditioned thinking. All they have to go on is what they saw growing up as a marker for the part they will play. Most of us had no idea what we were doing and armed with a cup of love backed by three powerhouse hormones (oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin) we dove into romantic unions with total faith that love would find a way. For some, it may have but for those whose background registered a myriad of mental, physical, and emotional trauma the fairy tale may be distorted. In fact, the dynamic of a shared love that started so well may be in crisis. And this is where blame, guilt, and shame replace love. Had each person whether they be a heterosexual or same-sex alliance been aware of their bag full of hurts the picture would have looked very different. And why I m advocating for more awareness of our psychological self as a set of skills to enhance our joy in life. We are educated from an early age with subjects considered appropriate for the navigation of life and our place in the workforce. What's drastically missing is the curriculum for our human behaviors and why so many factors can influence how we view the world. For example, a child that has grown up in a loving nurturing family may feel and act differently to a child whose mother and father are alcoholics in a home synonymous with a war zone. It's a similar vibe for gay and lesbian kids who feel the wrath of religious kin not wanting to accept their child is homosexual. Some parents are indifferent while others may take the line of loving their offspring enough to accept and support who they are. The impact of knowing more about our inner workings is pivotal and has the potential to pull back the years as we struggle to discern our emotions and how they are making us feel.

'A little knowledge goes a long way in a world ripped apart by people who react or interact negatively with no idea what is the root cause'

This breeds an aura of distrust of others' intentions and carries a disarming apathy from generation to generation. The dishonor to our species as a collective energy of intelligence takes center stage as broken relationships highlight our lack of psychological awareness. An Illiteracy that can be remedied with self-therapy and the perception it's okay to call on the experts for resolution. Instead, we flounder in the dark shadows of our unconscious in a mind game of detachment never quite sure why something feels off. And it probably is as we have become adept at burying our troubles, trauma, and emotions creating a holding tank of agony we can't deal with. Meanwhile, the fuse is lit for a triggered response to unleash what is hidden and wanting to be healed. We are complex beings and superbly designed for the dramas of life. We come with a conscious and subconscious mind that filters the theatre of souls long-haul on earth. That is in the moment and as a vault of emotive, traumatic constraint. It is here the major events that shock us to the core are kept until we are ready to process their effect. This can be years after a similar situation triggers what lies beneath. The clearing out of feelings from painful memories induces newfound health and lightness, The same can apply if we are not living by our values or in an authentic light. Happenings will occur on repeat until you burst the dam of deceit. That is knowing there is a problem but continuing to suppress the nagging vibes that can no longer be silenced. As humans, we tend to block our own path by not feeling ready or willing to pull up the anchor of our deepest held hurts. So likely to be accumulated in a world of narcissistic wounding.

'The victim may take the brunt of another person's pain whose own wounds are crying for ease'

It's a bounce-back effect that requires healing intervention for psyche health. And if we are well-versed in the basics of psychology we will know there is work to be done. When you think that most things on the planet such as a car or home require maintenance we begin to understand that so do we. Every day is a walk through a jungle of unknown quantity and the thoughts, feelings, and actions taken could burn a forest to the ground. It could also induce an aura of planetary distress as the collective ignites a wave of ruin calling it fashionable progress. Whether it's an individual or global energy of force the fallout will be felt like a dark-edged dagger piercing our hearts. That is if we continue on a path of carnage implementing the colosseum style of banishment in favor of shining a torch on our personal make-up. The blueprint of our human identity and likeness to all others here on earth. Our mystical, magical design has a common chord of discord specified in our similar patterns, conditionings, and well-earned verses of trauma, Deep within our unconscious lies horror movie memories, and events that were brutal in the making. At this point, it can get messy as the emotional effects of an incident or accident will rise rapidly to the surface. And like a diver gasping for air, you'll feel the shift as a redo of consciousness. When we are willing to transcend the tougher times we bring in the enchantment of growth a sacred awareness that moves us closer to understanding how we fit into this world and universe. You see what we take in from our day of birth impacts every moment as thoughts, behaviors, and emotions. A tornado of testing ensues and how we navigate every situation depends on what we think we know.

'That for me was building a foundation of psychology so I could accept and heal life's melodrama that can leave you shaken, broken, and hurt'

The payoff is knowledge and putting into practice the ways we can help ourselves when tragedy strikes. This inspires a quicker response if we have been victimized and traumatized by a person's unfulfilled needs. Knowing enough to analyze and understand what has happened and how we feel could mean a faster road to recovery. It's all about taking the initiative and becoming aware of the human psyche. A smart move when faced with an acceleration of narcissism the true epidemic on earth where a person defies unity and sets forth on a journey of the self with no reference to the loving intent of self-love or compassion toward others. Narcissism has cemented its self-lusting ideal firmly in the heart of those who see superiority, self-adulation, envy, and jealousy as their conscious objective with a need to dominate and take from others as an entitled right. Having encountered this delightful character led me to learn and up-skill my lessons in psychology mixed fervently with my spiritual beliefs. This spirit-psychology is a powerful combo for everyday life in a world of wounded and unhealed souls. The pain we cause each other without understanding why is a testament to the need for self-tuition in the art of human behavior as we are a multi-faceted race of beings with a penchant for self-denial, destruction, and decadence. I personally have made it a mission to learn as much as I can about how I work as a human navigating this life knowing I am a soul and co-creator with the divine. It's a jampacked epic coming here so my spirit psychology toolkit is piled high with classic and innovative teaching that allows me to understand my inner workings and how this crazy journey affects my everyday. There is plenty of free stuff online that you can access or subscribe to an educator of this spiritual and psychological mix. It works for this divine feminine who has achieved mammoth healing from some heavy-duty experiences by listening to the experts and then applying their wisdom to her own hurts and childhood wounds. If we let the pain wallow in our subconscious chances are we will never know the lightness of walking this earth free from our past intrusions. This is a world inspired by unhealed interaction and the price is failed relationships both straight, gay, lesbian, and bisexual. It's time to step up and learn how to take care of our human psyche and spiritual health. This will help elevate the collective and bring a high frequency of wellness to Planet Earth.

'Spirit Psychology heralds a future where all people will rejoice in healthier choices by taking the initiative to learn ways that inspire our spiritual and mortal health'

Author ~ Linda E Cole (The Divine Feminine)