Don't Let Their Issues Become Yours

Don't Let Their Issues Become Yours

There are all kinds of people that are watching you and observing you. With this, they are creating their own reality. When you notice or hear of someone disapproving of you, it is because you have become a cooperative component in creating their reality. Here lies the issue: if you begin to focus your attention on them gossiping about you or them being ugly to you, then their reality bleeds over into yours and it starts to become your reality too.

It is cyclical, as you focus on them, you will create more experiences in your life that will perpetuate the behavior they brought attention to. Their reality of you now becomes your reality. You become all wrapped up in their mess and it keeps continuing until you learn to focus your attention on something else.

Here’s the other issue, their disapproval or judgment of you is a necessary component of them creating new dreams, desires and wishes. When people are not happy in their lives, it’s because they want and need something new. It should propel them to a new path of life and growth. It has nothing to do with you. If we could just let that be their story, their reality and a tool they need to grow, then we would not take things so personally.

What if, you didn’t focus on them observing you and you just went on with your life. Then, maybe you are a part of their experience, however they are not a part of yours.

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