The only person you can't live a second with
That person is you! try to fork yourself into two persons and see what would happen. You'd find yourself across his person personal limits.
The only thing that makes us live with other people without finding any difficulty is that we have different thinking.
The most reason of divorcing is that two people have one way of thinking.
Social contract build on what?
When people decide to live together, they sign an agreement that they should respect differences. However, some times they can find themselves in a crossing over problem. Here the diversity (different methods of thinking) mediate the situation(dispute) by suggestions that come from loopholes which can be found within social contract.
It's my understanding of life. Does this apply for you?
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Interesting view.
Not quite sure about this though. Mutual respect for differences in perspective would be one way to put this, however having different thinking alone might not be something that keeps two people together.
If we were to assume that to be true, all the matchmaking sites have been doing it wrong as they try to find similarities to calculate compatibility instead of finding differences to predict how two different individuals would get along.
Not quite sure on this one either. I am not yet married so I might not be qualified to talk much on this. However, if two people had one way of thinking, I'd assume that there'd be less of disagreement and more of agreement. In case of pride and prejudice, if both reacted the same way - waiting for the other one to apologize or in case of constant exchange of blames - this would indeed hold true.
Thanks for responding :) you have interesting views as well. I have to research more about this.
nice post @blocktardes
Thanks @cilvia, much appreciated. I will produce more.