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RE: Men = Guilty? - Duluth Model - 554

in #sexism5 years ago

Somehow I just knew you were going to make me go suffer through the last five minutes of that video. Usually I find myself telling someone they must have a reading comprehension issue, this time though it's a listening one. (not to mention observing) He opens his video in a laid back fashion to try and convey himself as a friendly, peace loving (shalom)...as if to say, "why look at me do I look like I could cause anybody trouble" type fellow, with a high emphasis portrayed on his Aussie accent, a look at me I am just an old bloke from Australia, a good guy like most blokes. This is important because he wants to instill in you a reason to like him, take him seriously, trust him, he's just a poor old soul whose been misrepresented but what he goes on to say doesn't hold any weight. He claims his mother moved in with him, knowing that he's going to basically bash woman he excuses letting a woman live with him under the guise of you can trust your mother, mom sets the alarm off and the security company can't reach him because he turned his phone off so his social media accounts can't disrupt him while he sleeps, if they call twice and there's no answer they come out. When they get there they immediately just assume you beat your wife, start asking him what's his name, phone number, what's that room over there, etc. Okay, let's just go over that for a moment. One the chances that the alarm went off accidentally is slim, no cops or security company is going to come charging into your house without some sort of distress call. Two no cops or security company are just going to jump to the conclusion that your alarm went off because you obviously must be beating your wife. Three it would be natural for cops or a security company to start asking you what your name is, etc., and asking what a certain room in the house is to see if you know as to confirm they are talking to someone who lives there not someone robbing the place...not because they think you have someone hidden there beaten up. The chances are really good that he moved in with his mother and accidentally set off the alarm and/or that is his wife's residence and he set off the alarm breaking in and she put in a distress call, I base that on the pieces of information given which he actually leaves you reading between the lines to fill in because how he lays it out going down doesn't make any sense. That's shown right off the bat by his accusation they just busted in, unless a distress call goes out that just doesn't happen, cops and security companies must believe there is a immediate danger or risk of harm to go into a home without a warrant. Also no cop or security company is going to blow off a call just because the first person they encounter tells them it's cool it's just a false alarm...most burglar's wish it could be that easy. My bet is that it is the marriage household or his mom's household where his wife may have been staying with her after a separation but considering that by the end of the video he's complaining about how you can lose your house and everything you own my money's on he broke into the marital home after a separation and he didn't like the fact he no longer had control and could be so easily removed by forces that he couldn't beat into submission. I guess the most damning evidence against him in this entire video is when he states he could move to a middle eastern country where "traditional" ways are still held in high regard exist...meaning this would never happen in a country where a man's home is his castle and whatever he decides to do within it's confines, up to and including beating the shit out of your old lady, is still lawful and a right. He never claims in the video he went to jail what he's complaining about is the fact that they take her word over his and he gets put out over it. Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say there was no abuse involved...that would mean that for whatever other reason the marriage has failed, obviously he's complaining about paying child support so there's kids involved, so knowing his marriage has failed what kind of man would kick his kids to the curb because essentially him claiming about having to be the one to exit he'd preferred it to be the other way around as long as he still had to provide to help maintain the household for his family until things were settled in a divorce he felt he not his children should have come first. The most amicable way through a divorce when kids are involved would be the least disruptive to the kids, a real man would do the right thing regardless of the circumstances.

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I think you are overanalyzing a lot. lol
I think his mom accidentally set off the alarm and the police followed the Duluth model protocol and treated him like a criminal. I can understanding the reasoning behind the model but I also support some common sense.

This guy is not married and and doesn't have kids. I'm pretty sure he is also single.

He said he's been around the block, that's a minute or two before he says one could find themselves paying hundreds, then stops and says no thousands in alimony, child support, mortgages. I know he ain't paying no thousands in anything he can't even afford to buy some toothpaste to brush his teeth, he's talking away and you can see slime bobbing around in his mouth when he talks, he claims to be a trainer looking all dirty, his breath probably stinks from all that slime oozing around in there, I don't know many people who'd pay to be within two feet of him.

I am pretty good at analyzing, just as I caught your original political snark, pleazzzeee, I haven't achieved this much success at being a landlord for twenty nine years by being swindled by losers like him.

Yeah he's learned his lesson but I think he got away mostly financially unscathed from the gold diggers. lol
I think he does have some clients. I think he's the number 1 bodybuilding youtuber on Youtube because he started covering bodybuilding and he was about the only one covering it.

He probably lost about $100,000 if not $1 million going against the "agenda".

I think your analysis on this guy is pretty far off although maybe he is dirty I dunno. Overall I think he's a good guy although a bit too jaded but I would be pretty negative especially if the powers that be cut me off from an easy $100,000 if not $1 million or more.

You mean the bubble gut agenda? He's not a bodybuilder per say he just reported on it when no one else did. I would surmise his biggest utube gain was when he started the bubble gut agenda and Arnold agreed with him that body building should stay in it's classic form, Arnold jumped on the bandwagon they had a few heyday years but it's sort of fizzled...in the meantime others doing the bubble gut thing shut him out, with classic bodybuilding going out he doesn't have much of an avenue for utube as he no longer has an inside scoop, it's hard for him to analyze and come up with material. That's why he may quit, he says he has enough clients who want to learn bodybuilding to keep him busy. I guess the bubble gutters feel to them taking advice from a non body builder is like someone who'd take advice on how to do surgery from someone who isn't a surgeon but on the bright side of things there are people willing to pay to do just that.

This is WAY more than I ever wanted to know about bodybuilding. He had a neater, cleaner appearance in the interview but watching his overall expressions he was just someone who hit a bit of luck then came falling down rather hard, now he's a bit angry at all his losses, doesn't know how to cope with it all quite yet...just as he is reassessing his career moves and getting ready to move on he may eventually calm down about his marriage loss, put his self back together in that regard, realize it's not always a one sided story, stop the one sided blame and move on.

I say that because in the video I watched he talked about social media and people who come on social media sites and talk bad about you. Say really bad things, he gets satisfaction from being able to block them because he says they are nobodies, who gives them a right to criticize me.....but on the other hand he does exactly that to bodybuilders. If he, a man who isn't even a body builder,
just happened to be the first person online who critique's the sport can condemn professionals/ other non professionals without expecting consequences something tells me the apple wouldn't fall far from the tree in regards to his private life.

Yeah I think he might have helped changed the whole sport of professional bodybuilding.

You wouldn't be mad if you lost out on like $1 million dollars because of Youtube bias?

I haven't watched a lot of his recent videos. He's not a serious Youtuber anymore since he got blacklisted because he's a stereotypical hetero white male and goes against the agenda.

I looked and there's no place that said he was black listed, do you have a link to that? He said he was possibly quitting because he's been shut out by the belly gut crowd...most those participating in non belly gut wrestling are oversea's and he admits that makes that a challenge.

Sounds like he and Arnold have lost the battle on the belly gut issue if the main activities to traditional bodybuilding is happening over seas.

Basically it's politics. He's been shut out by the profession, if he wants video's he's no longer in the loop to get them from insiders to get the first scoop. He doesn't have the means and resources to travel all over the world to do his own videos, like he said it cost thousands of dollars for the equipment to do so also.

He's basically a locker room attendant, no degree in physical fitness/sports who got lucky for a few years being the first on the internet to highlight the sport of bodybuilding. He didn't like the way the sport changed so he went to bad mouthing them...it cost him, may have even cost him his marriage, who knows. I think he has a lot of self analyzing to do, seems he may be on that track.

I remember him being demonitized. I think he recently got remonitized though.