RE: S E X - C U L T I V A T E THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS
As you stated that you may have a limited experience, however based from them your reasoning stands to be true to you. I can repsect your viewpoint at this time, since you are open for dialogue and willing to teach and learn. We are always the student and the teacher. In adding my commentary, I think there has been many disadvantages for women and what is expected of them (us). Speaking from my American experience, women are trained and reared to focus on religion and school, so much so that there is little to no discussion with her on how to be a sexual pleasing individual. Sex is a great taboo and thus forth not cultivated. The aspect of over focusing on beauty and the outer aesthetics has grafted many women to come across as shallow. We here in America are bombarded daily with unrealistic beauty standards that is formulated by men. I do not believe that the problem is only in the way women are being or lack of being cultivated; I believe the problem is that neither men and/or women are properly being cultivated into suitable mates. Both sexes are given a different program at birth that does not favor each other, thusforth cultivating in lopsided suitabilty. But these are just my humble opinions. I look forward to building and learning more with this dialogue.
This is one of the reasons I love steemit. There is always wisdom in the comments one receives. I do share your opinion and from time to time some of these you have stated would be reflected in my posts. I am looking at expanding my thoughts on the issue. It is so true that men are not rightly cultivated and as such can offer little or no direction. The media poses a medium via which lies are sold to women about what a man craves. Some of this information are half truth and as such misleads the woman. I am open to more contributions. LATER TODAY, I will be posting a Narrative Poem. I hope you looked at it. Thanks.
Greetings, I look forward to reading more of your posts. Your writing is quite noteworthy and creates a healthy dialogue. I greatly appreciate that. There is this movie, it may be on Netflix, called Don Jon staring Scarlett Johansson and Joseph Gordon-Levitt. The movie outlines the different programs that are given to males and females. Without giving too much of the storyline, the male lead’s view of women and sex through the guild of pornography and the female lead view men and love through romance novels/movies. It is quite interesting to watch how their opposing programming play out as the attempt a relationship. I liken this movie to present day male and female relationships and interactions. Quite interesting indeed.
I will get myself around the movie soonest. I like such movies that do not only entertain but educate. Thanks for recommending DonJon. And thanks for the kind words.
Oh yes, I seem to be more attuned into finding hidden gems or messages in movies and tv nowadays.
The same is true for me. Sometimes I get into an argument with siblings simply because I see movies they find awkward and interesting. I hardly am put off by a movie. I do believe there is a story beneath what is being told.