you seem to have a kind of stable and happy life already

I guess my thought is, "Shouldn't this be the ultimate goal?" Instead of living in fear of someone finding out who we are because of any vulnerabilities they might exploit, isn't it better not to have those vulnerabilities as much as possible? I get I'm very privileged, but I also recognize the efforts I've put into getting where I am today. My hope is everyone can be their authentic self without fear, but I understand that's just not reality for most people. Yet.

I don't believe that you actually mean 'everything'

I think our cultural norms limit what we share publicly, but that is also changing over time as well. Many people think, for example, sex is scandalous. What if in the future we don't feel this way? That would change the types of photos and stories people feel comfortable sharing concerning their sex life. But yes, obviously not "everything" as I still have secrets related to passwords, encryption keys, etc. Thankfully that type of stuff won't leak through my photo metadata. :)

you can think about it as my chart of odds of the whole society for you.

Not really sure what you mean by that, but I think it relates to me probably not being in the average.

Thanks again for a great post.