I think some on each group believe their way is the best way. But many of us don't care what the other is doing until our choices have been attacked. Or women who feel insecure about their choices tend to get the defense (well most humans). But yes I agree - just let people live. As long as they aren't hurting anyone, especially you -- don't worry about it!

hmm I'll have to figure out how to post in "introduceyourself" -- still learning this place!