Yes, the #metoo movement is more about media hype then reality.
The mouth piece women talk about sexual harassment in the work place.
While your average male corporate worker now carries a audio recording device to record ever conversation with any female employee. These men avoid female interactions accept when required by work, and never allow themselves to be in a closed room with only a woman.
So, like you said, on one hand we have a few men in power positions who took advantage of that position.
But, the media is trying to paint it as all men. All men are bad and evil. Men are already rightfully terrified in the work place.
And the worst is, as you say, work used to be one of the places you met people to date/start a family. Now, that avenue is verboten.
I agree with you. There's no doubt that sometimes people in positions of power abuse it. I don't think that it is limited to just men either. Then there is the other side of the coin, the person that wants a promotion badly and will do "anything" to get it. Both of these people are wrong. The thing that irritates me the most of the Hollywood women is many of them made the choice to do what they did and got something out of it. It's unfair to come back decades later and scream that they were wronged. They could have said no and tried to make it without special favors from the powerful men they went along with. They could have gotten a different career.
Also, what you said that basically a man is afraid to be alone in a room with a woman these days for fear of looking at her the wrong way. It's ridiculous.