The way to prevent breakup?

in #relationship7 years ago

relation-1-690x450.jpgIt takes a lot of time to build a relationship foundation. But it does not take time to break it. Nowadays, however, the relationship is fast emerging. Break too soon But patience and endurance are necessary to maintain relations first.
There can be a quarrel about. Therefore, he should not be brought to the winding up. Today's foot
Not trying to change
Do not try to change her radically like your partner. Do not ask to change with someone. This will make your partner feel humble. Maybe one day he will change, but on that day you will also be in need of him.
Listen carefully to the partner
Listen to your partner. You can learn a lot about her complaint, love, mentality and expectations. And your relationship will be stronger as well.
Not the third person
Often, an outside person is enough to break a relationship. So try to maintain as much privacy as possible about personal matters of your relationship. Do not invite any outside friend for a compromise when a quarrel falls. Fix yourself
Be careful about family matters
Not just your own family, but also the family of the family! Keep in mind that even if you do not have sufficient amounts connected to yourself, you can not make any distance to your family with your partner.
Do not let quarrels be long-term
The quarrel is inevitable about a. But so did not make it so long. The short-term quarrel strengthens the relationship, but the long-distance distance (talking and not seeing) leads to a breakup.
Let's spend time with his friends
Your partner will spend time with you as usual. But do not completely disconnect him from his world. Give him a different time with his friends at least once a week. Spend time with your friends yourself. If you feel like eighteen with him all the time, he will feel uneasy.
Do not show extra response to friends of the opposite sex
Do not give extra response to friends of opposite sex partners. Your partner may like someone else, but if he is not weak, then do not get the punishment of someone else's hope that your closest person gets from you. See friends as judges without seeing them in sex.
Do not push past
Everyone has a past in life. Maybe you are not the first love of your partner, but never say that you will not poke her with her first love or talk about her with your first love even during the quarrels. As he gets annoyed, insecurity will be created in your own subconscious.
Discount
Everyone wants his partner to be the first, everything before him. But if your partner is busy doing some other work at any time, try to understand it without quarreling.
Do not touch personal things
Your partner's personal diary, mail, sms will not go without his permission. You can understand him wrong. And everyone has their own world, which is his own. Help him to keep the secret of his secret.
Maintaining human relations in the mechanical world is becoming difficult day by day. So take care of your relationship. Stay connected to joint life.

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