ARE YOU HIS PUNCHING BAG? A must read

Irene was a very gorgeous young lady. Every man wanted to date her and her beauty knew no bounds. Everyone anticipated who she would finally accept to be that 'special guy'. And need I say she had a wonderful character. Towards her third year in the university, a nice guy or should I say a disguised nice guy came along. They became friends first and he was always cool. I think he figured out that being friends with a girl first makes them have a soft spot for you. Most girls don't like rushing into a relationship.

After one or two months of being friends, they got into a relationship and they looked good together. Like, who won't envy them? When they were one year into the relationship, they started having sex. She may not have wanted to have sex with him but with all the pressure and because she loved him, they had sex. He started developing anger issues after they had sex. I feel it was always there though but he was always playing the cool guy. He started beating her up and she didn't tell me about it. (Did i tell u that Irene was my friend? O! My bad). When she finally told me, I advised her to break up with the guy. It took a long while but she later did.

Ladies, no guy should ever make you his punching bag. Most girls find it hard to break up with their boyfriends who beat them maybe because he was the first, or he was the person she lost her virginity to, or she just feels she might not find true love when she leaves him. There are many reasons. No matter the reason, if your boyfriend takes delight in seeing you hurt, he doesn't know your worth. Even if he promises you marriage, RUN before it's too late. You are invaluable and you need to see yourself that way.