@stellabelle YOU are my Ramit Sethi, at the moment... I am going to read your other article and the part 1 of this one and try to follow the path you have made here on steemit... I am exactly like you in a lot of ways and I am just DONE working for the man, as it were... I was recently fired from another crappy ass job that did help me build character that was sorely lacking for sure, but I am a damn good artist and pretty good writer, and steemit could be my end-all be-all if I just stick with it. I have not been the overnight success that I always want to be, but I can see that I could make it here if I just keep striving for it... thanks for this article - and YES Ramit did help you - or your Higher Self helped you through Ramit - because - in my mind - he hit you in that "Done" place and you just were ready to hear it at that moment - and were able to jump into the Abyss and drag your true self out of it... Timing.