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And we can't change human nature, but we know the control freaks are rarely the ones with expertise or real leadership, so maybe we need to start tearing down the mental constructs that give them a veneer of authority.

My younger sisters used to have a perpetual power struggle, but they both knew it was a matter of age and size, not some imaginary political legitimacy. At least it made some sense, even if they were both generally wrong anyway.