I recall working as an employee for a person that my therapist suggested may have BPD. I finally quit when it became intolerable. It is confounding when months of excellent performance are suddenly irrelevant. It is worse when projection conflates BPD and miscalculations of the employer become faults of the employee.

I hope DBT proves beneficial to you, as it has to me. When the world becomes black and white, particularly when the light of hope fades to insignificance, I find the Earth under my toes grounding.

Thanks!